Hello Magazine
‘Fame academy’ vocal coaches Carrie
& David Grant introduce baby Imogen as they share the secrets
of their harmonious marriage.
Celebrity vocal coaches Carrie and David Grant
certainly have a lot to sing about. Not only are they the harmonious
husband and wife team, who taught wannabe pop stars on the BBC talent
show Fame Academy, about to celebrate 20 years of making sweet music
together, but the couple are celebrating the birth of their third
child - Imogen Beloved.
Their new bundle of joy, who was born weighing
a healthy 6lb 13oz on the morning of 9 January, was named after Jamaican-born
David’s great grandmother. ‘Imogen was a name we both
always loved,’ explains Carrie. ‘It means “image
of her mother”. And we decided on Beloved because David’s
name means “beloved of God”. So we liked the idea of having
a name that reflected both mum and dad.’
Sitting in a light and airy studio in their
North London home with their other 2 daughters, 11 year old Olivia
and Talia, 4, by their side, the couple are clearly besotted with
the latest addition to their family and not in the least bit disappointed
to have another girl.
‘We knew all along’ says David,
49, cradling Imogen in his arms. ‘We aren’t very good
at surprises. We’ve always asked. When Carrie said she wanted
to know the sex of the baby during her first pregnancy, the lady at
the hospital said, don’t you want a surprise? And Carrie said
“Having something that size come out of my body is a surprise
in itself, I don’t need anymore!” Okay, so I’m in
a female-heavy house now and ill be bullied relentlessly - but hey,
I can deal with that!’ he laughs ‘and in any case Carrie
and I are good at girls, we know how they work.’
‘By this time, I think you’re just
so grateful,’ adds Carrie, who turned 40 last year. ‘you
realise how incredible birth and life are. When the doctors asked
me if I wanted tests to see if the baby was okay, I said “no”.
I just wanted to have my baby. I didn’t care how it came out.’
Imogen was very much a planned baby, but the
question for Carrie and David was when to fit pregnancy into their
busy schedule. Although they are best known for Fame Academy - they
acted as vocal coaches on 2 series of the show, as well as 2 celebrity
editions for comic relief - they are jus as busy away from the cameras
as they are in front of them.
When they aren’t helping young singing
hopefuls, they can be found coaching some of the biggest names in
British music. Over the years the couple have worked with the Spice
Girls, Take That, Atomic Kitten, S Club, Lemar and Will Young, who
they met when working on the first series of Pop Idol and continue
to train. On top of this, 2 years ago the couple released a book and
DVD on vocal techniques called You can sing, both of which became
instant best sellers.
‘We’ve said for some time that
it would be lovely to have another baby, but the past 4 years since
Talia was born have been so frantic’ says Carrie. ‘If
it wasn’t the TV work, it was the coaching, the book and the
DVD. Then it got to the point one day when we were like “Lets
do it now” because we didn’t want to leave it any longer.’
‘Well I didn’t want to be in my bath chair when the new
baby came along’ jokes David.
Although Carrie is by no means old, she admits
she was apprehensive about being a new mum again. ‘Obviously
it gets tougher as you get older, but actually I was very lucky with
Imogen. I got pregnant very quickly and her birth was pretty easy.
After a 12 hour labor she came out with just 2 pushes, and there she
was - just perfect.’
Imogen’s birth may have been straightforward
but the last stages of Carrie’s pregnancy were anything but.
Since the age of 17, she has suffered from Crohn’s, a debilitating
condition that affects the bowel and intestine. Although as a teenager
she suffered bouts of diarrhea, blood loss and skin rashes, it wasn’t
until a routine check up at the dentist that she was finally diagnosed
with the disease.
‘I just thought I was run down,’
she explains. ‘but when the dentist was all these ulcers in
my mouth he asked about my other symptoms. He knew what it was immediately.
It was a shock because I had no idea what Crohn’s was, but it
was also a huge relief to know what was wrong.’
Over the next few years Carrie had to undergo
a series of operations on her bowel and intestine, often spending
months at a time in hospital. Even now, when she has a bad attack
of the disease she can be left crippled with pain. ‘I live on
painkillers and when its bad the doctors have to operate,’ she
says matter of factly. ‘I try not to let it rule my life. For
the most part i control it with diet, avoiding dairy products. But,
like any illness, there are good and bad days.’
During the first 6 months of pregnancy, Carrie’s
condition seemed to have gone into remission, but in the last trimester
her symptoms returned with a vengeance. Unable to take the painkillers
that would normally see her through such an attack, and unable to
undergo surgery of any kind, Carrie was forced to come off solid food
altogether. At a time when most expectant mothers are enjoying eating
for 2, Carrie was so ill she couldn’t eat, living instead off
water and a medicated drink from her specialists.
‘I take the drink probably 3 months of
the year when things get bad, so you do get used to it. But it was
hard during the pregnancy because you’re so hungry and have
cravings. To be honest though, by that stage I was in so much pain
I knew I didn’t have nay option. In a sense, being on the drink
was a relief because I knew it would make me feel better.’
Carrie is very open about her condition. She
is a tireless campaigner for the National Association for Colitis
and Crohn’s Disease (NACC) and recently took part in a documentary
about a girl who tragically died from the disease.
‘I said to David many years ago that if I ever had any kind
of profile then I would use it to raise awareness about Crohn’s
because so little is known about it.’ she says ‘okay,
its not that easy to talk about your bowels.
Sometimes I think if I had another disease
it would be easier to talk about because its such a taboo to talk
about bottoms and all of that. Its not exactly glamorous! But I know
it helps people from the letters I get. If I was a 17 year old girl
lying in hospital waiting for surgery thinking “how am I going
to ever have a normal life?” and I saw a woman on TV who was
married, had 3 kids and a career and coped with Crohn’s, that
would give me hope.’
‘That’s what I really admire about Carrie’ says
David. ‘People in the world we inhabit don’t like to talk
about their flaws and yet Carrie has made a commitment and she has
stuck to it. The mail she gets is just so moving, it really does giver
people hope.’
They may have been together for a long time,
but Carrie and David are clearly a couple in love. They first met
in the 1980s when David was launching a solo career as a pop star
after he left the British funk duo Linx. He was invited to a Saturday
morning children’s show called freeze frame, where Carrie was
a presenter.
‘When I first saw Carrie we had this
moment, which had never happened to me before and has never happened
since, when our eyes just locked. I don’t think she really wanted
to know me but I conned her into spending time with me on the train
journey back to London and persuaded her that I was someone worth
seeing again.’
The couple soon started dating and 2 years
later, in 1988, they were married. ‘I recently read an article
about love that said the first 2 years of a relationship are as good
as it gets and that people’s happiness gradually declines so
by year 4 the passion has gone. And I was like “hang on a minute”,’
says David. ‘The night Imogen was conceived, Carrie and I were
out celebrating our 19th anniversary of meeting. We were walking through
Covent Garden in London when we turned to each other and said ‘lets
get a hotel room like a couple of teenagers!’ so all I can say
is that the passion is very much still there.’
Having just appeared on our screens in the
BBC show the sound of musicals, in which they both performed, Carrie
and David are now preparing to start work with Take That on their
come back tour.
‘Obviously Carrie couldn’t work
for the past few weeks of her pregnancy, so im looking forward to
her starting to work with me again,’ says David ‘people
always ask us, “how ban you work so closely together and remain
happily married?” but for us its never been an issue. If I do
a days coaching without her I really miss her input.’
‘I think the secret is we never sat down
and said “Lets work together” says Carrie. ‘It just
happened. We were session singing with Take That at the height of
their career and they asked us for help. It just went on from there.
The next thing we knew we were working with the Spice Girls. We never
really planned it and we certainly haven’t looked back. What
amuses me is that people who don’t know us always assume that
David and i met on fame academy! what they don’t realise is
that not only have we been working side by side for years, but we’ve
been married for almost 20 years and now have 3 children. It always
comes as a bit of a shock!’